Your bad joke husky face. Your delight in unusual hamentashen fillings. That you didn't get sucked into Biglaw against your will by peer pressure like so many people I know. The dark humor you developed about some really tough cases at work. Your love of Gillian Anderson and other awesome female characters in sci fi shows. Your read aloud of The Latke Who Wouldn't Stop Screaming. The way you welcome your nieces and nephews and friends' kids into your life so wholeheartedly. How much you love tea.